Thank you all for your replies.

I think the best course of action I can take is to just bite the bullet and discuss it, I would love to be able to sit her down and get her involved but that all depends on how the discussion goes. I’d love for her to be able to share in my big wins (she already does but doesn’t know it). 

I think your right @Pilo, if I can include her to a point where she feels some sort of control I think that would help greatly. I think the fear of losing control is what the issue is.

Other than the occasional comment on a YouTube video I pretty much never discuss my wins or losses with anyone. My friends aren’t interested in that world other than the occasional sports bet but other than that nobody really knows that I gamble, maybe that’s not healthy, I don’t know 🤷🏻‍♂️ I’ve always seen negativity towards gambling and towards those that choose to gamble which may be the reason as to why I’m not so forthcoming with my own gambling.  

My relationship will always come before my gambling. Gambling will always be there but my chance for a family won’t be.

You’ve all given great advice and I thank you for that, sincerely. I’m planning on having a chat with the mrs tomorrow 🤞🏼

Cheers Chaps 🤟🏻